Darcy Anne

Hi, Darcy! I love you very, very much! I can't wait to see and hold you tight. See you soon, my little one.

there are no words of consolation. you can prepare yourself for this or any of God's actions. but He is on the throne and "His ways are past finding out."that is our only support in a time like this. be strong in the Lord. when we are in the valley of despair, He is there to hold us in His arms. how reassuring to know that someday you will see darcy ann in heaven and perhaps God in His grace and mercy will let you know why He took her. take care and remember He rules and reigns. "all things work together for good for those that love the Lord and called according to His purpose. daddy

Dear Darcy, I think about you all of the day. I just want you to know that you are loved by so many already. You are especially loved by Jesus. You wont have to suffer through many of the tragedies in this sinful world for that I am glad. I love you, my dear sweet Darcy Anne.

Greeting to the Ramos Family!
I have you all in my heart and prayers and cannot wait until we all welcome baby Darcy home! Your Daddy has been a great inspiration to us at our Bible study class and we are here to return it seven fold. Feel free to contact me at any time to talk or if you justt need someone to listen.

Your Sister in CHRIST,
Shirley Moon

Hey darcy I love you sooooooooo much.

Dear Darcy,

Our family has been praying for you and your family since the day we heard you were coming. I must admit that I cried when I found out I would not be getting to see that famous Ramos smile for years to come. But as I place my own children in God's hands, I can do the same with you, for you will be cared for much better than by any of us, and even your mom and dad. You have already brought great joy to many, just riding around with mom as your taxi, and that is the memory our family will have of you...real joy that comes from placing our lives, long or short, in the Creator hands. You are loved by God and all of us in your church family.

Pastor Ted

Dear Tracy, Jason & your beautiful family,

I was out front the other day and little Mallorie was playing out front. She always seems happy & is always friendly. She asked if we were going to the park to play & if so could she come. I explained we weren't going to the park, but if we did we would come and get her.

I asked her how was Mommy & baby doing? She told me that you were sad and that the baby was sick & going to be with God in Heaven. I asked her what she meant & she told me that God was taking her back to take care of her.

We talked for a little while about how wonderful God is. She seemed completely assured that He was there for both Mommy & her unborn baby sister - And that He was there for her too. He is always watching over us & He is always with us, no matter how alone we might feel.

Please, if there is anything that Chad & I or any of your neighborhood family can do for you - anything - just shout out.

We will keep you & your family in our prayers.

For baby Darcy:
"You will show me the way of life, granting me the joy of your presence and the pleasures of living with you forever" Psalm 16:11

With Love, Chad & Angela Peterson

Dear Jason, Tracy and family,

I pray that you and your family will take comfort in knowing that you are the special family God has chosen to love and care for little Darcy as she passes through this home for a time, and then on to the one we all cherish and long to see some day.

Thank God you know that God knows just exactly what He is doing, and the reasons, and He does indeed work all things together for good. Those things might sound cliché to some, but as you know as a Christian, they are the foundation of our peace.

You were so kind and thoughtful before during Cricket's birth and her several surgeries, and I cannot tell you how much that means to us as Cricket's family. God truly does hear all of the faithful prayers of His children. Please know that you are in my prayers, and also will be in Cricket's prayers.

One of many things I learned with Cricket is to not assume we know for sure what will happen once our little ones are born. It is frightening to hold on to hope in case we are let down, and it is heartbreaking NOT to hope. As much as possible, I pray that you will have true peace in just knowing that God is in control.

With your permission I would like to forward your e-mail to friends and family members for prayer. You just never know what God has planned, but you DO know that He can do anything!

God bless you.

Ginger

Dear Darcy,
people are praying for you in Hungary too !!
Tracy, if we can do anything to help you out in these hard times, please, please let us know. We're here for you and your family!! Love,
Kata

Hi Darcy Anne:

How precious you are! So many praying and loving you already. Already we can picture in our minds a time when we all will be with Jesus - worshipping, singing, and playing in the streets.

God has a wonderful plan for you... we will pray daily for your time here - we have known the miracles that Jesus has done medically for our family and we pray for your life here on earth.

How strong your father and mother are! What a testimony they are to the brethren here! What encouragement they give us all in daily life...

How beautiful to see your mother in church - singing to Jesus with all her heart - praising and glorifying the King - we know you can hear her from the womb - and in your spirit.

We will all cuddle and pray and take care of your father and mother and family in these coming months.

We look forward to meeting you...

What a pleasure it is to meet fellow Christians so strong in their faith.

Darcy - sweet baby girl. You are touching more people than you could ever imagine. You've opened so many eyes to what kind of love God gives his children through your loving parents. Your mama is amazing... and I know that she loves you tremendously.

God has a plan for you sweet baby. You weren't placed in your mama's womb by accident. God knew she was a mighty woman of God!!

Our prayers and thoughts are with you all. God bless and keep you!

In Him,
Shan

I wanted to say something else - Darcy Anne:

hope it's o.k.


Your mother and father loving you this way is a great example...

An example to all the little girls, big girls, youth girls and women...

An example to all the little boys, big boys, youth boys and men...

Your parents have been open and transparent to what God has called them to do...

... and so many eyes are watching...

Many eyes are watching strength , grace, courage and love in action...

Who knows how many of these "eyes" will be called to something similar??

Perhaps God will use your mother and father's Godly example to encourage so many others in the future...

"Strength and honor are her clothing and she shall rejoice in time to come"
Prov. 32:25

Thank Jesus for this strength

Hello Tracy,

Yesterday was Mother's Day. And although I know how hard it must have been for you, I wanted to make sure I greeted you on your day.

What you are doing demonstrates the courage and love only a mother of God can show.

Darcy will be missed. And while she will not be able to experience having you as a mother here on Earth, she will always love you for what you are doing and wait to be with you in Heaven.

Happy Mother's Day!

Love,
Jet

Tracy and Family,

I am overwhelemed with your undying love of God and your faith. I know without a doubt that God has a very special plan for precious Darcy. Just hold close to him and take comfort in the fact that he is in complete control and will see you through.

Your little one has touch so many lives.

Love
Jessica

Dear Darcy,

Just wanted you and your family to know that there are MANY people out there who are thinking of you. You are so special and have a VERY loving family that have blessed with you even if only for a short time. I will continue to pray that God makes this easier for you and your family.

Dear Darcy Anne, just wanted to let you know that you have an amazing family...i "met" your mum online and ever since i heard you was ill youve never been far from my heart or thoughts...you have people praying for you all over the world even as far as the UK where i live....

Tracy...I love reading your journal entries. Thanks for being so real and raw before all of us. I also love the bracelet you made. It is precious.

Jason...I love that you posted the Gary V. version of "I Will Be Here" on the site. We saw him in concert at the school we minister at in the Philippines and he ROCKS! We loved him. :-)

Hello, Darcy.

I'm finally back in the office after spending almost a week at the Training Center. I returned to find a card on my desk. It was signed by so many friends and co-workers from a team I used to work with under Joe. You should see it. It has the word "Peace" on the cover. Open it and you'll see over 20 love notes by people you don't even know!

So many people are praying and thinking about you. I've never seen anything like it. I can't help but wonder if God is building an audience to show us something spectacular. Who knows right now, but Him? But I think it's already happened, Darcy. You're his gift who is already making an impact while still wrapped up inside your mommy's womb. Still. I feel the excitement, don't you? I can't wait to unwrap you!

Well, it's good to talk with you, Darcy. I wanted to visit and say hi to my darling baby girl. Sleep tight and see you soon.

I love you.

Daddy

Dear Darcy Anne,
We are friends of your mom & dad's from several years ago. We ran into them tonight at a Greek restaurant in The Woodlands, and we were so blessed by our visit with them. We are members of Crossroads Baptist Church, where we first met your mommy & daddy. They are truly special Christians, and I know God is using them for such a wonderful testimony, and God is using you, Darcy Anne, right now! How GREAT is OUR GOD! We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers, and we know that God has a perfect plan for you. and for your family. We pray for your mommy and daddy to be strong, and that God will pour out His blessings upon them and give them eternal peace that only can come from our Father in Heaven. We love you, Darcy Anne, our sweet young sister in Christ.

Tracy-

I just read your latest two journal entries.

How wonderful that God has "connected" you with people - via the internet - that have ministered to you!

I'm glad that you are being lifted up in this manner. :-)

Darcy's dress is B-E-A-U-T-I-F-U-L! What a gift!

Hi, Darcy.


I'm glad the doctor's visit went well today. By all indications, you are snug as a bug inside your little cocoon. :)

I spoke to a friend yesterday. She visits your website often and told me how you changed the way she looks at life.

That's just one example of how your are making a difference in many people's lives. I know you changed mine. You are a gift, my little one.

Sleep tight.

I love you.

Daddy

Hello, Darcy.

A friend asked if I was familiar with Psalm 139. I told her that I was. But even though I've read it several times over, it has never meant so much now that I know you. I want to share it with you here.

139:1 O Lord, you have searched me and known me!

2 You know when I sit down and when I rise up; you discern my thoughts from afar.

3 You search out my path and my lying down and are acquainted with all my ways.

4 Even before a word is on my tongue,
behold, O Lord, you know it altogether.

5 You hem me in, behind and before,
and lay your hand upon me.

6 Such knowledge is too wonderful for me; it is high; I cannot attain it.

7 Where shall I go from your Spirit?
Or where shall I flee from your presence?

8 If I ascend to heaven, you are there!
If I make my bed in Sheol, you are there!

9 If I take the wings of the morning
and dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea,

10 even there your hand shall lead me,
and your right hand shall hold me.

11 If I say, “Surely the darkness shall cover me, and the light about me be night,”

12 even the darkness is not dark to you;
the night is bright as the day, for darkness is as light with you.

13 For you formed my inward parts;
you knitted me together in my mother's womb.

14 I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well.

15 My frame was not hidden from you,
when I was being made in secret,
intricately woven in the depths of the earth.

16 Your eyes saw my unformed substance; in your book were written, every one of them, the days that were formed for me, when as yet there was none of them.

17 How precious to me are your thoughts, O God! How vast is the sum of them!

18 If I would count them, they are more than the sand. I awake, and I am still with you.

19 Oh that you would slay the wicked, O God! O men of blood, depart from me!

20 They speak against you with malicious intent; your enemies take your name in vain!

21 Do I not hate those who hate you, O Lord? And do I not loathe those who rise up against you?

22 I hate them with complete hatred;
I count them my enemies.

23 Search me, O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts!

24 And see if there be any grievous way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting!

God does not make mistakes. You are a perfect creation, dear Darcy. Your chromosome abnormality has a purpose far beyond what our measly minds can fathom. I can't wait to hold you.

Love you,

Daddy

Hi Sweet Darcy Anne -

It's me Mary Cate, your adopted aunt who loves you very much. We have a lot in common. When I was in my Mom's tummy, I almost went to heaven with Jesus. The doctor had to give my Mommy special medicine to save my life.

I was born 11 weeks early and had medical problems. My life was not easy as a little girl but I had the biggest smile like I know you do. My body was weak but I had a strong spirit like you.
God gave me a special assisgnment to show others that every life is precious no matter what the body looks like.

I remember accepting my Jesus at age 2. I was drawn to Jesus like other kids were drawn to ice cream.

So how are you our little missionary this morning? Darcy, our world is so sad but you make it beautiful. You show others the Gospel of Life without even leaving the comfort of your sweet Mommy's tummy.

Our world seems to think that children are a nuisance or diposable. This makes Jesus cry teardrops that fall like rain.

You show the world that all children are beautiful and wanted. Your precious life speaks volumes and you are helping others come to Christ with the help of your Mommy and Daddy.

I have looked for answers for twelve years for things that have happened to me. Since learning about your precious life and becoming friends with your Mom I understand that my tears have not been in vain. All my pain has meaning because of you and your Mom. I thank God for the precious gifts you are to me.

It just goes to show we may not understand God's ways but when He chooses to show us the big picture it is more beautiful than anything you could ever imagine.

You, Darcy Anne, are more beautiful than we could ever imagine. Keep growing beautiful. We are all praying for you, your Mommy and Daddy and precious brothers and sisters.

Love, Hugs and Prayers-
"Ant" Mary Cate
"Ant" -- from one small baby to another!

Hi Sweet Darcy Anne -

Every time I talk to my Mom she asks about you, your Mommy, Daddy and your siblings.

My Mom told me that the best sermons in the world are lived and NOT preached. How cool!

Darcy, this means that you, Mommy and Daddy are the best missionaries in this world.

Mommy and Daddy look at what doctors call facts and they raise their hearts, minds and souls to heaven and look to God their Heavenly Father with great trust, love, faith, hope and humble obedience and gratitude for your precious life.

Darcy, you are creating quite a stir from within your mother's womb. You're wonderfully made by God and even people I consider to be self-centered and grumpy are humbled by your presence on this earth and we on your side praying for a miracle.

Those in this world who have lost hope look at your Mommy and Daddy's courage and start to have faith in God too.

You are helping to transform the world one soul at a time. You have left your footprints on this earth without even taking a step.

Thank you for leaving your precious footprints on my heart. Since I have been praying for you and your parents, I am a better Christian and have found more peace than I have ever known.

I love you. You rest sweetheart, dream sweet dreams and keep growing beautiful.

I think you have a bigger fan club than Elvis did!

I do love you with all my heart!

Love, Hugs and Prayers Beautiful-
"Ant" Mary Cate

Hi Darcy and Mom and Dad,

I am just checking on you guys today.

Darcy - you are such a blessing on this Earth. I thank God for the opportunity to know your Mom and follow your story as it is one that encourages and inspires us all to have faith.

Mom and Dad - you have on the FULL armor of God and for that I applaud you.

You have not given up while your faith is being tested and God will reward you.

Sandie

I love seeing the body of Christ come together - just as it is/they are doing in your life. :-)

Hi, Darcy.

We had a great time at the park yesterday. We played volleyball, tetherball, obstacle course, and even took turns riding the dirtbike.

We also found out that your big brother, Bryson, likes the taste of sand. Yuch! I've picured you playing on the sand with him and having a grand 'ol time.

You have a great family, Darcy. We can't wait to see you.

I love you. See you soon.

Daddy.

Hi Darcy,
I know you don't know me and I've never met your mommy and daddy; but I just chatted with your mommy a little bit over the e-mail. I want to say to you; that you are so blessed to have your mommy and daddy. They love you so much. God really loves you and He has already blessed you with a loving mother. Your really lighting up the lives of so many already; because of you many friends are coming into your mommy and daddy's life. And many prayers are being said... and oh, how our heavenly Father loves to hear our prayers... they are in honor of you, little sweetie. You are bringing out the beauty in all of us. What a gift you are too so many!!! Just hearing your name melts my heart.
My love to you and your mommy and daddy and your sisters and brothers too. God is truly blessing you all!

Dear Darcy,

It's amazing how you can love someone so much that you've never even met. I pray that you can feel the love that surrounds you and it will soothe and comfort you.

Your Aunt Misty

Hi Little Darling Darcy Anne:

I saw Mommy's journal entry that you and Mommy went to your Dad's Bible Study Class. That is so neat that Daddy had you both at his class with him today.

Darcy Anne, I know you don't understand big words. There is a lady in Texas named Mary. Mary had a baby named Katrina. Katrina had an extra chromosone #18. The doctors thought she would go to heaven right away. She lived 9 years and 1 day. Katrina went to heaven in November because she got very sick with the flu. She got to enjoy a lot of time with her siblings and her sweet Mom.

We continue to pray that the doctor's test made a mistake and if it was right, we pray for Jesus, your best friend, to take that extra chromosone out of your body and make you all better.

Darcy, you melt the hearts of so many people. It's like the everyone in the world that hears about you adopts you into their hearts like one of their very own family. You are my family, Darcy, you are my sister in Christ and part of the Body of Christ, the Church.

Dear Heavenly Father:

We all thank you for the beautiful gift of Darcy Anne's life. We give glory and praise to You for creating Darcy Anne. She has come to be a blessing for so many of us and a source of inspiration, faith, hope, courage and love. This dear child blesses us all and brings us closer to You!

Please help little Darcy Anne continue to grow strong and healthy in the comfort of her Mommy's womb. Please Dear Father I humbly ask Your Son, Jesus, our loving Divine Physician to heal Darcy Anne of all illnesses and physical or health complications.

Please bless Darcy's Mommy, Daddy, brothers, sisters, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins and friends during this time of anticipation, anxiety and time where we are all called to have great faith and trust in You! It is a time for us to grow in our faith and love of You!

Where two or more are gathered in Your name, the power of prayer is vastly abundant. Please listen to the prayers of all the prayer warriors for Darcy Anne and her family. We are all growing in faith, love and compassion because of dear little Darcy Anne.

We humbly ask all these things in the name of Jesus your Son!
AMEN!

Darcy, we think Mommy and Daddy for their words on your website which help us all grow in our faith.

Have a sweet day, Darcy! I hope your family sings pretty songs to you today.

I love you, little miss sweetness...
Love, Hugs and Prayers-
"Ant" Mary Cate

Dear Darcy,

We know that our heavenly purpose for your life though it is hard for your Mommy and Daddy and their friends to understand what that is. We are blessed by all the God is doing in your family's life because you are here with us right now. Although, you will be in heaven sooner than we expected, we are so glad you are here now, close to your mommy's heart and being held lovingly by your Daddy's hands and hugged by all your siblings until that time. We know that the Lord is watching you every moment of every day, for the bible says he knows in the womb and sees us as we are being knit together. We pray the Lord will comfort your family who will miss you so much in the coming years but we also pray that your little life will impact them in a beautiful way for eternity.

Love,
Donna, Tim and the family

Dear Darcy and Tracy,

I've been thinking about you a lot lately. Meeting your mom on JAS babies and her telling your story has kept me up to date. I'll pray for you and your family.

Stay well and know we are here for you Tracy when you need us. Hugs.

Hello, Darcy.

We watched your sisters, Lexy and Bella, play ball at the Y today and they showed their hearts like a Ramos. We are so proud of them.

Even in the middle of shouting and cheering, my mind can't help but wonder how God wired you. Athletic like Lexy? Artistic and technically adept like Bella? Versatile like Brittany? Bright and energetic like Mallie? Charming like Bryson? Or fearless and adventurous like Roman?

Mom was running and yelling up and down the field as usual. It must have been pretty bouncy in there. Did you enjoy the ride?

I felt you play two nights ago while Mom was soundly asleep. Every time I rubbed Mommy's belly you seemed to move a little more. I had a great time. Each of your siblings has their Daddy time. Let's make the nights ours, deal? :)

I love you so much. You warm my heart.

Daddy

Hi Tracy,
I just read your last entry and how confused you are. Don't be, your on the right track. If something is in your control; then take control. If you can help your baby by just saying, "yes", then say yes. Help her. I agree, doctors are the healers God has given us. We must trust God is behind everything. I believe by seeking the help God has sent you; this is God's Holy Will and God's Will can prevail in your lives if we answer "yes" to His call. We are to love all of God's creatures; no matter how perfect or imperfect they are. We are to love them with all it takes. You love your daughter and you can be her advocate. Serenity, is a very important thing to learn as a Christian and sometimes very hard to live by. It is so easy when things are out of your control to let go. That's why you are so confused and so scared, because this decision is in your control. You don't want to let go. Every mother wants to battle for her children. It's the love that gives us the strength. We, the rest of us Christians, can pray for Darcy's doctors to help her. What happens after you say "yes" is out of your control and in God's hands. Isn't that what life should be about.... allowing God to take control. This is putting it in God's hands. Trust your feelings.

"Fear destroys faith.... Faith destroys fear!"

Your doing the right thing.... don't give up.

Many Blessings

Dear little Darcy Anne,
I pray our Almighty Father will hold you in his protective hands, whether he chooses to heal you and leave you on this earth to live, or takes you right away to live with Him in heaven with the angels. In his big hands is the safest and best place for you to be. There have been times when I had to relinquish my little girl (though she is big, she is still my little girl) into the Father's mighty hands to do with as he wished, and it was not easy, but I knew that she was much better there than in mine, trying to wield my will for her life. He has a special plan for you, and you will be at peace wherever that will take you. I also pray for your Mommy that God will comfort her hurting heart and give her peace in His perfect will for you.
Love G Judy

Hi Tracy,

This is a beautiful website and a real memorial for Darcy. Please continue, I also keep a journal and find it very helpful. I will continue to pray for your little one and continue to keep Charity in your prayers. I know this is a hard and lonely journey but we do have our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ!!

Dear Darcy,

I just want to say that I marvel at your truly wonderful and amazing parents and siblings.
I truly believe that we are given parents who teach us the very lessons in life that we individually need, and that your was to be loved completely and unreservedly, and to be born into a family who would do anything for you.

My little family lives far away in England, but you are close in my heart, sweet baby girl.

God Bless you and your family xx

Lisa, Shaun, Callum and Henry Lucas (JASmommies)

Dear Darcy Anne,
/>I have the pleasure of meeting your daddy through our father we share "God"; and I must say I am glad to know that I have a niece on the way.

To my sister-in-law in Christ, I would like to share an idea with you in memorializing Darcy Anne while yet in your womb; I understand photos are to be taken while yet pregnant, but I was telling Jason about you having your stomach molded (cast) then having all of the families hand prints placed on it; and when Darcy get's here add her precious hand and footprints to it.
I hope you don't mind me presenting this idea, but if I had the chance to do it with my son that is no longer with us, I would have.
/>Well Darcy Anne, Auntie Norma Jean is not going to take up any more space in you journal, but just know that you have found a place in my heart./>
"I'm glad that I can have Love for my fellow man and God, that I have not yet seen"
r/>God bless the Ramos Family

Norma Williams

I've been absent from your blog due to the most recent typhoon...but you have not been forgotten. Also, I hope none of your relatives were affected by the typhoon or the massive flooding it caused. Thinking of you...

What a precious little face she has!! Thanks for sharing her 3d sonogram with us. She looks beautiful!!!

I just found out about your situation. I have been sitting here crying as I read your blog. It is amazing to me how God works! Several weeks ago, Michael and I were talking about the fact that I had an overwhelming desire to pray for you and your family. So, we stopped what we were doing and prayed over you guys for a while, knowing nothing of what was going on in your lives. Now that we know, we will continue to pray for you with all diligence!

Hi Darcy Anne:

What great news that those brain cysts have disappeared! I know those are such big words for a little girl to understand.

We are praying for God to heal all things in your body and to give Mommy and Daddy peace.

Darcy Anne, I have a friend who is a priest for the Missionaries of Charity Fathers -- (the Missionaries of Charity Sisters are the order of sisters Mother Teresa belonged to). When Darren was studying to be a priest, Mother Teresa told them, "Let nothing so fill you with sadness that you forget the joy of the Risen Christ". How true that is.

I have learned alot about faith, seeing God in all things from my college friend, Father Darren. I always hang on to that in good times and in hard times as well.

"Let nothing so fill you with sadness that you forget the joy of the Risen Christ."

Darcy Anne, you know nothing but joy in the confort of your mother's loving womb. I pray that in the days to come, you will continue to heal and know the love of Jesus the Christ, our Blessed Redeemer and Savior of the world.

I love you sweet little one. I am in awe at your beautiful photo. God loves you precious and beautiful little Darcy Anne. May God continue to bless you and heal you in all the ways you need it most.

I love you and would do anything the Lord asled me if it would help you.

All my love and joy at your beauty and preciousness-
"Ant" Mary Cate

Darcy is B-E-A-U-T-I-F-U-L. Thanks for sharing the pics.!

She is BEAUTIFUL!!! What a perfect angel. God doesn't make mistakes and she is perfect. I'm so glad you shared with us Tracy!!! Get some rest and get settled into your awesome new house!!!

Tracy, Lance reminded me tonight of a poem I wrote right after we lost Treya. He encouraged me to share it with you. Im a little shy about things like this but here goes.......


I feel my loss still every day

and most days theres not much to say,

just an ache that lies deep inside,

and shows up occasionally in my eyes.



I never thought it'd happen to me,

and though it has i've chosen to see,

that God's plan for me goes past my pain,

as a sacrifice so others gain.



And compared to what He's done for me,

my sacrifice, as you can see,

was small, Oh that i would choose to give,

if it would help many others live.



For see she's safe and guaranteed,

a place beside Him for eternity,

and soon there I will see the angel I gave,

along with others she may have helped to save.



So Lord help me use my daughters death,

to show your grace and its depth,

take the love for her that will never quit,

and give it to others, through me, as you see fit.



So I might be your helping hand

and her existence though short will stand.





I dont know if you can totally understand it but its mostly talking about how much God changed me in losing Treya and how he softened my heart so much and that maybe that in losing her I have learned to be even more sensitive to others.

Much Love
Stacy

Hi Precious Darcy Anne-

Your family has been very busy moving and know you feel all the excitement.

It is good to see that Daddy wrote you as everyone is praying for you and asking me about you. You already have more friends than I have in 40 years!

I humbly ask God to take extra special care of you and Mommy. I pray you stay safe in Mommy's comfortable womb until you are bigger and stronger.

Don't pull a trick like Ant Mary Cate and come out to soon. My Mommy and Daddy were so scared when I came 11 weeks early. I am still a fighter today at 98 pounds, I am still petite.

I already know you are beautiful and going to be petite and dainty.

You are loved so just stay inside Mommy eat, rest and sleep precious little one. You will get to meet everyone face to face soon and your new house soon.

Sweet dreams sweetheart. Ant Mary Cate loves you and is praying for you.

Still following your journey! Glad you got moved into your new home so quickly! :-)

Hi, Darcy.

I told a friend at work about how you are our "little evangelist" and she almost started singing and praising. What a blessing you really are, Darcy!

We have the play area up and ready. Our backyard is starting to look like a little park. I think you'll think it's cool.

The days have been flying by and you will be with us soon. Can't wait for that time to come.

I love you.

Daddy

Dear Sweet Tracy, Darcy Anne, Jason and family -

I was so sorry to hear that your Mom died Tracy. God rest her precious soul.

I pray that Jesus and His Most Holy Angels will comfort your precious family during this time of sorrow.

Please know I am praying for you and will ask others to do the same.

Darcy Anne, keep growing strong in the comfort of Mommy's womb! We are all praying for you, sweetie!

I love you all!
Love, Hugs and Prayers-
"Ant" Mary Cate and Welton

Hi Sweet Precious Darcy Anne:

You are such a good girl enjoying the comfort of your Mommy's womb and growing stronger each and every day.

Jesus is your best friend and He is helping you get well. Jesus hears the prayers of so many people who love you and asking Him to help you get well that He is being moved to heal you, sweetie.

Keep growing beautiful, we will be happy to wait until you have grown more to see just how truly beautiful you are.

I love you always! Here's a hug from "Ant" Mary!
Love, Hugs and Prayers-
"Ant" Mary

Darcy,

Dear Tracy & Jason,

A co-worker turned me on to your web site and I spent the entire morning reading through all of the Dear Diary and blog entries. As a fellow-Christian, I applaud you in your faith and conviction that God WILL see you through this road He is leading you on. I will begin today, praying for you and your family and all that God is doing through your lives.

Although not the same chromosome situation as T18, my family went thru a slightly similar situation and I wanted to share with you how God touched my life through it. We tried 9 years to get pregnant with our daughter. We tried 18 months to get pregnant with our son. We then prevented further pregnancies, as we didn’t have the time or finances to afford another child as we were both career military and knew our pay would not have any significant pay raises for several years after our son was born. My husband left for a 6-month deployment on a Navy ship and 3 days later, I found out I’d somehow gotten pregnant. I was shocked, yet unable to be with my husband when he found out (by letter). At first, I worried about how we would afford this new baby, knowing our pay would not change but that our cost for it would be approximately $350/month. We had just bought a new house when pregnant with baby #2 and were upside-down in equity in it, so selling it was out of the question.

When I turned 4 months pregnant, my OB/GYN doctor strongly urged me to have an amnio test (because I would be almost 35 when baby #3 was due). I had it done and the results were bad (although not as devastating as yours). Our baby was missing a chromosome and stood a high chance of have ambiguous genitalia and abnormal intelligence. I’d never heard of ambiguous genitalia but it’s when the baby is born an “it” and the parents decide on what sex they want their child to be and then doctors try and surgically “create” those genital parts. Abnormal intelligence was explained as being anything from having a speech impediment to being fully retarded. My doctor suggested I have a “pubs-amnio”, to confirm the original test, as it has a higher accuracy. A pubs-amnio also has places a higher risk on the fetus and during that pubs-amnio, we all watched the sonogram screen as my baby went into fetal distress, almost dying before our eyes. We all hardly breathe or made a move in the OR they had me in, wondering if they would need to do an immediate C-section to try and save him. His heart rate slowly recovered going as low as 18 beats/minute and they stopped further attempts at drawing blood from the umbilical cord.

My doctor strongly urged me to abort my baby, and without my husband by my side, I felt like the decision was all up to me. He was half-way around the world, unable to pick up the phone if I wanted to call him, with our mail taking 1-2 weeks each direction. Through those 6 months of his absence, I kept fearing the worst, but through his 6 months of absence, he kept replying that “God won’t give us more than we can handle, and everything is going to be okay.” I felt like he was in denial and Satan kept trying to attach our marriage with my doubts and insecurities, all the while maintaining being an active-duty Sailor, maintaining a household and two young children and an hour-commute each way to work, all the while feeling like a single parent.

Two weeks before Dave’s ship returned, my OB doctor finally did the first sonogram to check the baby and we found out her fears were confirmed: he had totally ambiguous genitalia. I was crushed in spirit. The Sunday before Dave’s ship returned, during a Sunday service, I felt “called” to go forward during our church’s alter call and be prayed for. Not a word was spoken between myself or the person who “laid hands on me” and in the past, Sunday after Sunday when they had alter call during the service, I stood there and thought that whole part of the service was “hokey” and unrealistic. Well, God urged me forward and someone “laid hands and prayed on me”, although they knew not what for. Dave’s ship returned the next day and the following day we had a very long appt with the Navy’s senior neonatologists/specialists. I had a list 2 pages long of questions and not one could be answered except for them to reply “we have to wait until your baby is born and we actually see what we’re working with.” After that appt, my OB asked my husband to come to the examining room so she could “show him” what we had been talking about, as his demeanor through the whole appt was that I was wasting their time. To her and my amazement, when the baby popped up on the sonogram screen he had anything but ambiguous genitalia! She and I were amazed and then I remembered: two days before this appt I had gone forward

Hi Sweet Little Darcy Anne:

I am sitting here smiling as I think of you, precious little girl. You are a beautiful daughter of the King so wonderously and perfectly made just the way you are.

Whenever I think of you, I think of God. I think of heaven and the greatness and mighty power of God.

I continue to gather prayers for you sweetheart. You have changed my life more than you will ever know.

Stay safe in Mommy's womb and grow a little more before you come meet the world. I have prayed for you as I know my own parents went through a lot when I was born 11 weeks early.

Don't come out and show us how beautiful you are just yet we can wait a little longer darling baby girl. You are loved.

God Bless You and I will blow Jesus a kiss for you tonight.

Love, Hugs and Prayers-
"Ant" Mary Cate

Hi Sweet Darcy Anne -

I am praying for your safe arrival from Mommy's womb to the outside world.

Many people are waiting to see your beautiful face and so many love you!

"Ant" Mary Cate better get busy letting everyone know you will be born soon. Extra special prayers are coming your way.

Catelyn is whispering in Jesus' ear to heal you!

You are loved precious Darcy! Thinking of you makes me smile again! My Mom is very ill with pancreatic cancer and now a kidney stone attack.

My family is pryaing for you and your family!

Love, Hugs and Prayers-
"Ant" Mary Cate

Hi Darcy Anne:

Many people are waiting for your safe arrival precious little lady. May Jesus the Divine Physician heal your porecious little body in all the ways you need it.

I love you and praise God for creating you!

Love, Hugs and Prayers-
"Ant" Mary Cate

Darcy,

We are praying for you to have a beautiful delivery into this world. We continue to pray that God's plan is to have you here a little longer or even a lot longer. We know you are one of His precious ones. We pray He has continued work for you to do here on this earth. We will be in Colorado when you are born, but we will be praying for you and looking for updates and pictures! We love you and your family!
Shannon for the Robisons

Hi, Darcy ~

I just wanted to let you know what a special and amazing little girl you are!

Your family loves you endlessly and your mom has shared so much of you with us. I've gotten to know your mom a little through the message board that we visit.

I have to tell you, Darcy, that your mom is the strongest, most faithful person I've ever 'met'. She's a rock and a true inspiration to me!

Along with your family, I'm anxiously awaiting your arrival, too! I can't wait to see what your next mission is. You've amazed all the doctor's and I know you've amazed your parents.

Stay strong sweet girl!

Love and prayers,
Kristie

Welcome to the world, Darcy!! What a strong little girl you are! Thank God!

Praise God!!!! What a great God we serve!!!!!! Welcome Darcy!! We love you Ramos family!

Welcome to the world, Darcy! You have been such a blessing to so many people as we've watched your journey from afar. I hope you can continue your journey here with your family for a long, long time! You are just beautiful and so incredibly precious.

Dear Darcy,

I was blessed to have been lucky enough to meet you today. I took pictures of you at the hospital. You are certainly a perfect little one and I am honored to have even gotten a glimpse of you and your family. My family and I send you all the blessings and love.

Dear Darcy,

What a beautiful and precious gift you are to the world. Your life is a testimony of the wonderful Grace of God. The Lopez family would love to say "welcome". Your life and the faith of your parents have truly blessed our lives. God be with you all.

Hi Tracy and Jason:

Congratulations! Praise God!

I just called Mary Ann Mattei in Texas from Support Organization for Trisomy 18 and she wanted me to send her "CONGRATULATIONS" your way. If you want to talk to her, I can email you her phone number!

Also, my Mom is so excited and she nearly cried. Please pray for a miracle for my Mom who has pancreatic cancer and goes for her first appointment to the pancreatic oncologist tomorrow, Sept 29.

Welton and I are thrilled beyond words for you!
Thank you and God Bless!
God Bless You!
"Ant" Mary Cate and "Uncle" Welton

I'm back again, Darcy!

I just can't stop looking at your beautiful pictures and showing you to my family and telling them all about you!

You're so beautiful!

Darcy is B-E-A-U-T-I-F-U-L! She is also P-E-R-F-E-C-T. Our hearts abound in joy for you and the time you will have with her. What a blessing!

Darcy you are born and doing so good. I cried when seeing your little face so sweet and perfect. You are a blessing to the world. You have inspired me personally and so many others. Every HAIN (heavenly angels in need) member is crying with glee over you and your beautiful family. Your amazing little beautiful angel.

Love Mary

Hello Darcy! You are so beautiful! Your mommy and daddy are lucky to have such a special princess! Give Them lots of love.

Hi Tracey,

I am so happy for you, Darcy is absolutely beautiful. I am so grateful to GOD that she made it and I will continue to pray and fast for her health and strength. GOD BLESS YOU I AM SO HAPPY!!

Hi, Darcy ~

I was just checking in to see how you're doing. I hope you're continuing to stay strong! I can't wait to hear all of your updates and see more pics of you! :)

Hugs and prayers,
Kristie

Welcome Darcy,

Although I have only just learned about you, I am truly blessed by you and your courageous family to my very core. I know God has, and always had, some very special plans for you in His book of Life. You truly are a miracle!

God bless you Ramos family, You are special beyond words.

Angel Hugs,

Peg Harris
North Carolina

Welcome Darcy; I know that the family and surrounding friends are all over joyed. God said it in his word; for those who read it and believe.

Jason and Tracy may God continue to bless you and your family; always put God first and he will never fell you.

Be blessed,

Norma (www.vantageoil@weebly.com)

Hello Darcy and family,

I just wanted to let you all know that I'm thinking of you and saying many prayers. I hope Darcy is continuing to do well. I can't wait to hear your updates!

Love, hugs and prayers,
Kristie

Darcy, I love you so much! It is early morning, and mommy, daddy, and I are taking shifts in watching you! I want you to know that I enjoy every minute of it because it gives us sisters a chance to bond :)

So many people love you and are praying for you!

I love you!
-Britt

Hi Precious Baby Girl Darcy Anne:

You are more than beautiful, you are an awesome, amazing miracle, the work of the Lord's hands.

I praise God for the joy you bring your family and the Body of Christ throughout the world.

How precious that you and your sisters are already have girl time! You are so loved precious Darcy Anne.

Darcy, my Mom is really sick with pancreatic cancer and is having a stress test on her heart Friday. If she passes the heart test, she will have pancreatic cancer surgery on Oct 7 at 8:15 a.m.

Welton and I are traveling to Missouri and will stay in St Louis with Mom. Dad is too ill to stay there for an entire week. After Mom goes home, I will take care of her and my Dad for several months. After she recuperates she will have chemo and radiation.

I humbly ask your friends, family and church family to pray for a miracle for my Mom and for God to strengthen my Dad during this difficult time.

My Mom and Dad continue to pray for you sweetheart and your family.

Oh how loved you are on all the earth. I bet you have had more prayers go up to heaven for you already than more most would in 100 years!

I wish I could hug you, instead I'll blow Jesus a kiss and thank Him that you are wonderfully made.

I praise God for you little princess and adorable daughter of the King of Kings.

My friend, Samantha, will keep me posted on how you are while I am at the hospital and away from a computer.

Love, Hugs and Prayers-
"Ant" Mary Cate and "Uncle Welton"

I am honored that you called me for help this morning. The Robisons are far away right now, but we are on our knees for your sweet Darcy and all of you! We all love you!

Shannon

Welcome home, Darcy!

What another amazing milestone - I'm very proud of you right along with your family!

I can't wait to hear about your journey through that wonderful check-list of things your momma has planned for you!

I hope she takes lots of pics to share with us. I especially can't wait to see that tattoo and what kind it is! I love stick-on tattoos!

Love, hugs and prayers!

Kristie

Hey there little Miss Darcy Anne! When are you going for your heart surgery, Princess? I remember when you were still all curled up in Mommy's tummy and the doctors said that if you lived and fought for 48 hours they would operate on your heart. You sure showed them you have a fighting spirit and will to live! :)

My prayers and the prayers of my church family are with you, Little One!

Darcy,

You are beautiful!

I just saw the MOST beautiful pictures I think I've ever seen. Of you, Darcy, with your mommy! You've got the most angelic face ever!

In the short time you've been here, you've gotten to do so many wonderful things - Most of the things you've gotten to do I've never gotten to do in my 30 years! You've got the best family in the world, Darcy!

Hang in there sweet pea!

Love and Prayers,
Kristie

Love the pics.! Shona rocks! :-) So glad you're accumulating so many photographic memories! Precious time!

I don't even know your family, but your web link made it to my email inbox this morning. Tears stream down my face as I read your precious story and look over your precious family pictures. What an awesome family! I am praying for Darcy and all her family. What an amazing story of great love and courage, and look at how many countless lives you are touching! God still does miracles! Expect one every day.

Darcy,
I read your diary daily, and have a smile on my face each time just reading about your adventures. You have a wonderful family and it is truly inspirational to see the bond that unite all of you. You are one lucky little girl, and your family sure is lucky in return to have you.

Tracy, I hope you are taking the time to rest a bit and take care of yourself. I know you want to devote yourself to litlte Darcy, but you mustn't forget about your own needs. Take care my friend. (((HUGS)))

Darcy,
What a beautiful little girl you are! We are all praying for you here in Dallas, Texas! Stay strong, little one.

Hi Darcy I love you! You are soo adorable! You are very special to me and mommy, daddy, ate, peppy, mallie, roman, and bryson! I LOVE YOU!

A ride on a motorbike! Are you sure it's a Darcy list?

Darcy,

You are such a fighter! You hang in there. We will be home in a couple of weeks and just can't wait to meet you sweetie! Give Mommy a hug and a kiss for me? You are almost 1 week old! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

Shannon for the Robisons

Happy Birthday Darcy!!! What a precious little angel you are!!! Sounds like you have been very busy since I last saw you! Thank you for brightening my day and reminding me of how special every moment is that God has so graciously given to us! Enjoy fulfilling your Darcy List and I will keep checking on you!

Hello Miss Darcy,

It was so good to see you the other day even though you were sleeping. I took a couple of pictures of you and one of Grant. He gasped when he saw you. :-)

We are all so happy you are here and blessing everyone with every breath you take. You are quite THE GCC celebrity mam!

I made you a button and a sticker for the facebook crew. They say "I love Darcy Anne" and its a picture of mommy kissing you! I also made you a hat but I am not pleased with it so I think im going to redo it.

Anyway, I just wanted to drop in and say hello to you and your family. You have the most amazing family and I just well up each time I think of Brittany and how much I love her and how fabulous and helpful ive heard she is.

Such a tiny little chicka you are with so many blessings!

I pray you sleep well and eat well. God peace to your home and MAYBE... ill see you at church tomorrow!

MWAH
Ms. Stacy
(Your future cheer coach?)
:-D

Oh, sweet little girl. I hope that someday you will be able to look down from heaven and know the impact your short life has made on this world. I am so proud of your fighting spirit and am praying that God will ultimately reward you with peace and good health for eternity in heaven. Please know that you are loved by so many and that I will never take for granted the lessons that can be learned from your life. May the rest of your journey here be as painless as possible.

Oh sweet Darcy,

The battle is hard. I know you are fighting w/everything you have. I am in tears after ready what your Mommy and Daddy wrote. They love you so much and I know you feel that. I am praying I can meet you when we are home in 2 weeks. However, we are praying that you are w/o pain. You are so precious to so many. God has used you to be a witness to so many people. I love your Mommy so much and so wish I could be there for her right now. Darcy we are praying!!

Shannon

Dear Darcy,
I've sat here for days trying to find the words I need you to hear, how can I express to you and your family, even though we've never met, how much you have affected my life. How can I put into words what I'm feeling? You don't know who I am but I've followed your story online on the CS boards and then through your website. I remember when your mom first posted about your condition and we cried for you and your family. What amazes me is your families unblinded love for God through everything, it's really touched me in a way I didn't know that I needed. You see, little one, many years ago I lost my faith and have been going day by day since trying to find the answers that I needed. After reading your mom's entries and doing a lot of soul searching because of it I believe I have found my way back into his arms, it's a good feeling. I just wanted to thank you and your family for bringing me that, you'll never realize how much you've touched my life. My family and I will continue to pray for you and your family, you are such a strong little girl! and wanted to say, from the bottom of my heart, thank you ♥

Jeannie
Nova Scotia, Canada

Dear Darcy,

What an amazing beautiful, little fighter you are. And what a life. I've been praying for you just for the past couple days, since a link to your site was passed on to my email. I am sending a Dreams of You package to your family. And I pray that you and your family will find great comfort and sufficient grace in the arms of our Heavenly Father as He carries all of you. I so hope you made it to the last item on your list, dear sweet one...but if not, I know that you left this earth surrounded by love and entered heaven surrounded by love. We are praying God's continued comfort and strength for you. And we are rejoicing with you and your family for this time you have had and the miracle you are...we are weeping with your family for the moments of sorrow on this journey. What a beautiful, inspirational family you have. Thank you for sharing your life with us.

In His Grace,
Kelly Gerken
sufficientgraceministries@gmail.com
www.sufficientgrace.net
http://sufficientgrace-kelly.blogspot.com

Hi Darcy,

You are one of God's shepherds and your mission will soon be complete. Take heart in knowing that you have done your job. God Bless You.

I normally have a scripture to quote but at this time there is none, I am so choked up with emotion. YOU are true evidence of the Power of God.

To the family,
I know that this time is hard but I also know that with your faith and relationship with our Father, you will be okay. This is the development of your testimony.

Sandie

To Little Darcy and Family,

MY HEART ACHES FOR YOU. I AM FILLED WITH SUCH EMOTION OVER WHAT YOU ALL ARE GOING THROUGH. WHAT AN EXAMPLE YOU ALL ARE WITH YOUR FAITH. I HOPE THAT YOU GET TO SPEND AS MUCH TIME WITH DARCY AS YOU CAN. IT IS TRUE THAT EVERYONE IS HERE FOR A PURPOSE. DARCY IS DEFINATLY AN ANGEL SENT FROM ABOVE AND HAS TOUCHED EVERYONES LIVES SHE HAS COME INTO CONTACT WITH, OR THAT PEOPLE HAVE HEARD ABOUT. I AM GLAD THAT YOU DID MAKE IT TO TERM AND WERE ABLE TO MEET YOUR FAMILY AND BE HELD BY THEM. HANG ON LITTLE ONE UNTIL IT IS TIME FOR YOU TO GO UP WITH JESUS AND BE A HEALTHY LITTLE ONE WAITING TO BE REUNITED WITH YOUR FAILY ONCE AGAIN.

To the Family & Friends of Little Darcy:
God in his infinite wisdom knows just how much we all can take. He has saw fit to enhance your lives with a beautiful baby girl. Enjoy each precious moment. This is a gift that many women would give anything for. Remember the Bible says "Behold I am the Lord, God of all flesh, is there anything too hard for me". Continue to hold on and trust him. He has promised to be there for you every step of the way. Enjoy your blessing !!
Laverne

To the Family & Friends of Little Darcy:
God in his infinite wisdom knows just how much we all can take. He has saw fit to enhance your lives with a beautiful baby girl. Enjoy each precious moment. This is a gift that many women would give anything for. Remember the Bible says "Behold I am the Lord, God of all flesh, is there anything too hard for me". Continue to hold on and trust him. He has promised to be there for you every step of the way. Enjoy your blessing !!

Sweet Darcy, I cannot tell you what a privilgedge it was to meet you finally, last week. I have been praying since before you arrived. You are sucha gift from God that I felt like I was standing on Hallowed ground in your prescence. You are so beautiful, it was hard to take my eyes off of you. Know that I love you, as does your whole church family, yes, family, for you belong to all of us and we all adore you.

Darcy,
Sweet girt, you have touched so many lives in so few days! Words cannot even describe how much your story has moved me. I only learned of you three days ago, but your impact has been huge. You are an amazing, beautiful baby, and you have the most wonderful family! You are all in our thoughts and prayers!Stay strong, love!
The Villarreal Family

Dearest Darcy Anne & Ramos Family,

After reading your diaries and entries here, my heart is about to burst for you all. What an incredible journey I have been following here. I don't know how you can find the strength to continue updating the diaries and blogs. It is nothing short of amazing. You are all special beyond what words can describe.

I cannot even imagine what you must be going through. I am praying, constantly, for another miracle in healing...every day...to continue, thru maybe even another week. What glory it will be to God as he heals you Darcy Anne. And no matter what, you are still the biggest miracle I've ever personally witnessed from God in my 54 year life span.

God bless each and every one of you. I only wish I could be where you are...I'd be on your doorstep doing whatever it took to help you through this. You touch me to the very core of my being. Your faith has strengthened my faith.

Angel Hugs,
Peggy Harris
North Carolina

Hi Darcy,

It's quitting time for me and I just wanted to jot a line of encouragement to you and your family.

God is our refuge and our strength. There is no one like Him. You are one of His angels that was sent here for a purpose and you have helped so many of us to see that our burdens are never too much.

We just have to look to Him for strength as the Bible says - we can do all things through Him who strengthens us.

God Bless You sweet baby girl!!!!

Sandie

Jason, Tracy, Darcy and family.

You all have been in our thoughts and prayers. Pls dont hesitate to let us know if there is anything at all we can do for you.

In Christ with you,
Caudal family

Dear Darcy,

I'm very sad to hear about the rough few days you've had. I'm so sorry that you have to go through this and that your family knows that your time here on earth is near an end.

I read your daddy's post that said you had died several times, but yet are still here. What a fighter you are, honey.

I'm so choked up and emotional Ramos family! I just can't even imagine continuing to get the 'previews' of Darcy leaving. It's amazing that she comes back, but what a thing to have to keep enduring.

You're all on my mind daily! You all have really impacted the lives of many including mine. You never leave my thoughts and prayers.

I will pray for your continued strength.

Love and prayers,
Kristie

Just wanted to stop by and say we are continuing to pray in Ohio. And Darcy, you are awesome!!! You GO GIRL!!!!!!

Love you guys!!!!!

Dear Jason and Tracy,

You have an amazing family. The outpouring of love and support for Darcy and your family truly shows God's grace. Darcy is in our prayers.

God's grace please be with Darcy.

Robin & Sally

Dear Darcy and family ~

I'm just dropping in to see how you're doing tonight. I love seeing all the new pictures of you, Darcy and your amazing journeys each day.

I'm thinking of you all and keeping you in my prayers.

Love,
Kristie

Dear Tracy,

You are an incredible person with amazing faith. Take care and kiss that baby for us all.

Darcy and Family-

I became aware of your story today on CS. I am at a loss for words and at this point don't know exactly what to say. We are praying for you here in Virginia. You are truly a blessing and fighter and I know you are doing everything you can to continue to be strong. I have never been more blessed to share my name with anyone...so today after reading your story you made me proud to be a "Darcy" also. We love you and stay strong baby girl.

Love,
Darcy

What a beautiful and special little angel. She has touched so many lives. I am humbled by the responses of others on this site; it is amazing how Darcy has accomplished so much in her life - more than most people will ever accomplish in their decades on earth.

I think you have one of the best families in the whole world - a shining example of true and limitless love. You and your family have so much to teach the world abot love, family, God's grace...You are all in my prayers and thoughts daily .

Darcy has been touched by God in such a way that she has the power to touch others so deeply...God bless you sweet little Darcy Anne. What an amazing little miracle!

Beth

Dear Family,
I just got in from a long day, and had to check to see how you all are doing. From the blogs, it seems God blessed you with another 24 hours with precious Darcy. She loves each of you so much.
I believe God is blessing each of you bountifully.

Hi Darcy,

I went to Bible Study on Tuesday and I told them all about you and your precious family and their awe inspiring FAITH and I asked for prayer on your behalf that you show the world how "compatible with life" you really are.

Hugs and Kisses sweet baby girl

Sandie

Dear Darcy, I just want you to know I am thinking of you and praying for you! You have just the best mommy and daddy ever, and they love you so much. I am so glad they have had so long with you and that you have been doing well. You are a precious jewel from our Abba Father and He loves you so much. You are fearfully and wonderfully made! Your life is of great value and precious in His sight. I am praying for your sisters and brothers too, and of course for your mommy and daddy. God's grace and comfort are bountiful.

Love,

Miss Colleen

Dear Darcy,

Well, what can I say you little Trooper? Tita Christy thinks about you constantly while she is at work and I text your Uncle Keith to check your site. Around 6pm NY time today he said he didn't see any updates and my heart sank! As soon as I got home (and every night since I have heard of your arrival) I rushed home and breathed such a sigh of relief!!!! You are absolutely beautiful!!! (It helps that you have pretty parents too!) I think of you when I lay may head down at night and pray for you!! Hugs and Kisses!

Tita Christy, Uncle Keith, Antonio and Logan

Dear Darcy,

I do not know you or your parents but i came across your site when i was researching information for another Trisomy 18 baby that I will help enter this world in December. Your strength and the faith of your family has touched my heart. You are continuously in my prayers and you will be forever remembered. God bless you and your family.
Enza

Dear Darcy and Family,

I am truly amazed by Darcy's strength to!! Reading her story is heartbraking and joyous at the same time. I am glad you have had these days to spend together. I will continue to pray.

We are praying this morning Jason and Tracy.

Jason and Tracy,
We are praying here as well. I woke up and she was the first thing on my mind so I started out praying specifically for her this morning. I didn't come on to check on her until after 11 and now I know why she was so strong in my mind. We will keep praying for you all.

Hello, Darcy.

I am sitting here watching you and Mommy. I know that I can never count you out. We thought you left. Your heart was beating so slowly for minutes, but seems you are making a come back... again.

We hate to see you suffer, but will fight alongside with you to stay alive.

Ultimately, we really have no control. God is the One who numbers our days. It wasn't our CPR that revived you. We committed you to the Lord at 1 pm, but you haven't left us yet. We must have said I love you a million times.

Stay calm, my sweet daughter. Peace and be still, my sister.

We love you, we love you, we love you...

Daddy

Oh Darcy, sweet baby, you are such a blessing to us all. I feel blessed just knowing about you and being able to read about you each day. I sure wish I still lived in TX because I would definitely have to come see you, even if it was thru a window.

You are a miracle, one of His Chosen Ones. I pray that you go back to Him peacefully and without pain. Let the love and prayers of us all, lift you up when your deliverance time comes.

I lost my baby boy in August and a poem was written for me and my son and I would like to share it with you and your family. It was written by a coworker of mine, his name is Bruce and I told him this poem is way too pretty to be just mine.

The Sun Still Rises

We wake up to days full of sun, full of renewal,
We bask in its rays, and in its shade, we feel cool,
Each day never a copy of the one before,
Night brings anticipation of what daybreak has in store.

We measure of our lives by the passing of days,
And accept our faith as sure as the sun’s rays,
We measure our love by the ones we touch,
We’re blindly devoted, for we feel so much.

We don’t question the depths of it all.

When sunlight turns to shadow, we feel relief,
When sunset turns to darkness, we accept it,
When God chooses a path for us, we follow it with spirit,
We don’t question what we don’t control.

The darkest nights still and always will lead to the dawn,
The shadows will disappear and be replaced by the sun,
Rain drops will fall and then they will dry,
Leaving a path marked clearly for us, we won’t question why.

So what do we question, if not for the days?
We ask for guidance, strength and resolve,
We ask for purpose in our lives, to explain our dreams,
We know there’s a plan, only God knows, it seems.

The sun still rises, and we’re enraptured by its grace,
Like children in a blanket, we’re warmed by its embrace,
We’re strengthened by its light, and given vision,
We now see what lies ahead of us, but not in the distance,
It’s not our decision.

Life will play itself out well beyond what we imagine,
We’ll live out each day, in wonder of what will happen,
We‘ll love what we can hold, that the sun still rises,
We’ll have faith in what lies ahead, beyond our eyes.

Draw strength from life, from love, from faith…

Dear family, I think I stumbled onto your site via lotsofkids.com. I have been following your story for some time. I am praying for you today and will continue to do so. May God grant you all peace.
We lost our baby boy almost 3 years ago. I look forward to heaven when I know I can be reunited with him. Peace, In HIM,
Adoptingmamma

Oh Tracy, I hope and pray that Darcy does well a bit longer, and that you have strength to deal with the road ahead.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

She is adorable.

What a miracle sweet Darcy you have been to your family and many of us who have come to know your mommy through other sources. It has been amazing to get to know you through all the wonderful stories and pictures your mommy has been sharing with us. I will pray for you as you continue on in your journey here. I will pray for strength and healing for your family when God calls you home, as I know they will miss you terribly.

Love to you and your family,
Lisa

Dearest Darcy Anne,

I've only written once up until now and that was before you arrived. Now that I have met you and held you for two whole nights, and am a little less sleepy, I just have to write to you. You are so amazing! You are beautiful beyond words and your little personality is precious. Like your mommy, told me, your pout is just the most beautiful thing about your expressions...such sweet little lips and eloquent dark eyes. You have the strongest grip I ever could have imagined. Mr. Tim tried it first and you held on to his finger like you would never let it go!

I can still feel your little body moving up and down with your breathing while you slept and it was like a miracle come to life to me to hold you in my arms. I never thought at all that I would get to do that!

Once two nights ago, you woke up while I was changing your diaper and you looked around with those dark eyes as if in amazement at where you were and what was going on. (Cool air on the bottom does that to a person I'm sure!) It was a magical moment and I was just in awe to see you looking around and truly taking it all in. And then you promptly went back to sleep. It was a moment I will never forget.

I will be praying every moment from now on for lots of sleep and lots of dirty diapers and lots of good strong breathing with no stuffy nose. I was so thrilled when your Daddy said you were beginning to suck on your pacifier Friday morning! I had wondered if you might be close to doing that the night before.

I have to tell you that you have the bravest Daddy and Mommy and sisters I have ever seen. Sometimes you went through such struggles to breathe when you were crying and yet your daddy just patted and rocked you, telling us that he was just trusting the Lord to calm and settle you. And your mommy, in spite of her own fears and sadness over your discomfort just rocked and loved on you to help you get through the rough spell. You could not have a more wonderful loving family than your parents and siblings. We were so privileged to get to see their faith in action even if for just a short time.

We will keep praying for you every minute. You are a miracle of God and your own strength and spirit are an incredible example to us. You are an amazing precocious little fighter, Darcy Anne and a beautiful, precious baby. We are praying for more miracles for you and for your sweet and faithful parents. Their courage and faith are an example and lesson to us all.

Love,

Mr. and Mrs. Rodgers

Dear Jason & Tracy,

My heart goes out to you and your family. I envy your strength and faith in God. It's amazing how a little girl can affect people's hearts whilst only being with us for a short time. I do not think i can look at my children the same way after your story. I don't think i can complain about anything in my life right now or ever, as they are all nothing compared to what Darcy and your family has gone through. She has touched my heart and my soul and mended my faith.

God works in mysterious ways and we won't understand why all these are happening right now until his work is done. But trust that Darcy will be in my prayers and my family's prayers.

Stay strong with God's help!!!

Oh Jason and Tracy...I'm so sorry for your loss of Darcy in this earthly realm. My heart grieves for you, sweet siblings in Christ.

Oh Jason and Tracy, and all the big brothers and sisters, I am so very sorry for your incredible loss. I will continue to hold you all in my prayers, and I will tell Mary Cate as well (she is away from her computer, visiting her Mom in Missouri while she recovers from surgery). May God heal and console your broken hearts.

Dear beautiful Darcy Anne,


I have had the priviledge to witness your family's journey with your life. It has been an incredible test for them, one they have passed with grace, humility, and beauty. The night you were born, I was at the hospital and I was awestruck by the glorious reception you received from all your brothers, sisters, and mommy and daddy. Truly every second of your life here on earth has been prayed over, watched over, and celebrated. You have shown thousands of families the importance of celebrating our loved ones and being thankful for the gift of life. You are a messenger from heaven, and I pray your memory will continue to prick the hearts of the people around the world who need Jesus. I love you, my sister. I visit your site daily, I love your mommy and daddy with all me heart. They are heroes in this world, and they will run to embrace you one day in heaven, where your sweet little body will be made whole. Your life gives strength and courage to mommies around the world who are faced with babies with your condition. I will miss you precious one, but only for a little while.

Your sister in Christ,
Erin Lichnovsky

Terah Seago told me about Darcy Ann on Wenesday night. Ever since have been praying and so have my parents. This morning when we read about her passing we wept and thank the Lord for his love of her. My mama knows what is is ike to lose a baby and it made your story even closer to her. I tank ou for shring your strong faith with us. You will continue to be in our prayers.

Tracy & Jason, We love you guys and will be there for you as you grieve.

Shona & Mark

Darcy,

While this news breaks my heart, I am comforted knowing that you are with our Lord and that through you He did great things. You were an inspiration to all of us on the power of the Lord and what love can do.

You and your family will be in our prayers.

We love you all!

Uncle Jet, Aunt Nekita, Aaliyah, Maya, Collin and Mae Carol (Nekita's mom)

Precious girl, You can't ever know the impact that you have made on so many lives. I am sad that you are not with us, but happy that you are no longer suffering. As you spread your beautiful wings in heaven, know that we have all been reminded how precious life is and hug each other closer because of you.

Your proud Aunt Misty

I am heartbroken over the loss of your sweet little girl. What a blessing she was! Please know that all of you are in my thoughts and prayers. May the Lord comfort you and your family during this difficult time.

I'm so sorry for your loss of sweet little Darcy...She is now in heaven watching over all of your family....
Thanks Darcy for bringing so much joy to everyones lives ..even if it was a short time..it will stay with me forever...
love you Darcy

-beth

Thank you Darcy for showing us all how to live. The lessons I learned through you and your family will always be with me.

I am envious of your getting to be with Jesus and seeing Heaven in all its glory.

Jill

Words can not adequately express the depth of my sorrow for your loss. Though I know your sweet angel is in Heaven with our Father right now... no pain, no suffering, the earthy side of me aches for you... knowing that nothing can prepare for you for the loss of a child.

Your journey through the pregnancy, birth, and her weeks here on earth has been a testament of your deep faith and is a blessing to me and many others.


You are all in my thoughts and prayers. God bless and keep you.

-Shan

Dear Jason and Tracy,

We are so sorry that your time with dear Darcy Anne has come to an end. But we are so glad that she is not struggling anymore and that you do not have to see the suffering she was enduring.

We pray the Lord will fill your heart and mind with the joyful memories of the short life she lived with you. Thank you for letting us share in a part of her story. We will never be the same again nor will anyone else who has heard the testimony of her life and yours.

Love,
Donna, Tim and the kids

Dear Ramos Family,

I learned of Darcy's story after she was born when she came to see Dr Yut. I work for Dr Yut and her preciousness touched my life in so many ways. I was so sad to hear of her passing and I hope your family can find peace in her leaving this earth to be home with the lord. My prayers are with all of you.

love,
Amber

Dear sweet Darcy,

Wherever you are you will be remembered. You earned a spot from God's loving abode where there is no sorrow and pain. You have shown courage that seems a lifetime. You are truly blessed.

with Love,
Elloso Family

I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Darcy Anne. I was blessed to know about her and your family through NILMDTS. May the Lord watch over you in this time of sorrow. God Bless you also for giving your daughter life. Her light will shine forever in others hearts and soals forever. Thank you also for giving us all the honor to get to know her. You shared her graciously with us to share the glory of God with your family, Rest in Peace Darcy Anne

Oh Darcy,

Sweet baby girl, I am sad to see you go for the sake of your family but glad for the sake of the suffering that you were going thru.

God is our refuge and our strength and the only thing that we as Christians can do now is to look to Him. We love you.

To the family,

Your testimony is great and should be shouted from the rooftops so that others can see the might and power of our Saviour.

He has done great things and He will continue to do great things in all of our lives.

Take the time to reflect on your sweet girl and know that God brought her to YOU for a reason.

I will keep you all in my prayers.

Tracy - I am so proud to be able to say that I know someone as faithful and strong as you. I am so very sorry for your loss.

Daddy - When you have those moments of going to the bassinet, pray. Your daughter will be with you always in your heart.

Hugs and Kisses to you all.

Sandie

Dearest Tracy, Jason and children,

You'll know we love you and we all know that precious, beautiful darling Darcyanne is in Heaven with Jesus. I can just imagine that HE is rocking her at this very moment. It is so wonderful that we serve an awesome God that is in complete control. I know your sweet lives will never be the same. You'll are a wonderful family! I felt closer and closer to God everytime I read about my little third cousin. Just think, her Grandma, Great-Grandma and Aunt Mozelle are joining her and getting to be with her. I know they are having a wonderful family reunion there. We love you'll and if there is anything in this world we can do, please don't hesitate to call us.


Love Forever,


Loretta & Solomon & Family

Dearest Darcy,

I love you and I miss you so much. I thank God that He gave me the privilege of holding you in my arms even for a short time. I am happy that I was able to sing my funny lullaby to you. I promise I will sing it to you when we meet again. I hope it won't be too long when I am called to join you because I miss you so much. I would like to see your beautiful tiny pink face again, kiss you and hug you forever. Goodbye for now, my little darling. Till we meet again.

I will love you forever.

Lola

Tracey and family....hugs and praryers for you and your family. I know you and your family are celebrating her being in heaven with God right now but I know you are still really hurting not having her here on earth with you all. She was such a Huge, magnificent blessing in her short time her on earth. She touched, and still is touching so many hearts!! I cried for the wonderful family she has, and all that you did with her while you had her here on earth with her. I know you and your family have such a love for God that you will get through this, it will just be a little different "normal" now that you do not have that wonderful angel here on earth with you all. I checked your blog daily or every other day to see how you ALL were doing. If you ever need anything at all.....I am off on sun/wed and live in spring.....please let me know....even if its just a hug or a shoulder to cry on. I lost twins almost 3 yrs ago at birth so I know the loss of the child, but did not have the fortunate experience that you had with time on earth. God has his plans.....we just do not know right now what they are. God Bless you all in this time of sorrow and grieving.

Jeanine, Glenne and Hailey Levy
Spring, TX
(cs-jeanineb)

I came across this website through another website I was looking through and cried reading the 'dear diary' entries. I came home everyday after work to see how Darcy was doing and was ecstatic to see that she had lived in your families love another day. When I logged on yesterday and saw that Darcy went home to the Lord I cried like a baby. Your family is truly blessed with such a beautiful daughter. She looks just like the angel she is. God Bless You All!

Dearest Darcy Anne,

I am so sad that you are no longer with us, but at the same time I'm so happy that you don't have to suffer anymore. I can only imagine the pain that your mommy, daddy, and siblings are going through. It's comforting to know that you're in the arms of your Heavenly Father. Upon your arrival in Paradise please give your grandma (my mom) and your great grandma (my grandma) a big hug and kiss from me. I love you Darcy Anne.

Ramos Family -

I'm so sorry that your angel Darcy has had to leave your arms. Knowing she is in the arms of God is comforting, but cannot stop your pain. I wish there was something I could say or do to help...please know that your Darcy will never be forgotten, that she will live in the hearts of so many people, that she truly has changed lives, hearts, and minds. She will continue to do her "work" here.

I am so very sorry your time together has come to an end. You did so much to make sure that you lived a lifetime's worth of love in so few days. You are amazing parents and an amazing family. God bless; you will remain in my prayers.

Beth

Darcy,

I woke up thinking I had to clean your feeding equipment. Your mommy also whispered in her sleep something about covering your head and feet to keep you warm. We can't stop thinking about you, Darcy.

I know you are so much better now but we miss you very much. I guess I didn't realize how a tiny person like you could leave such a large hole in our hearts. Letting go will be tough. But I know that if God allowed us to bond with you this deeply, He will provide a way for healing.

His grace is sufficient.

I love you.

Daddy

Thank you, thank you, thank you for sharing how God has, is and will continue caring each of you through this incredible journey. Earl and I both said that you are living in the present. Now God will continue blessing you and your living children in unexpected ways. We love Lola so much and love you and Darcy Anne. El Shaddai is "All- Sufficient One". He is everything!

May Our Savior wrap His wings around each of you and love, love, love you.

Love,
Earl and Jill

Tracy I am so sorry for your loss and really just have no idea what the right words would be right now, I hope you and your family are holding as best can be ,my prayer for you now is that having Darcy in your life only brings you even closer to your family .I wish I could be there to make a meal or watch the little ones while you nap or toss in a load of laundry...if there is anything that I can do from VT please don't hesitate to let me know loads of love and cyber hugs and stay in touch - let me know how it is going Becky Jas mommies ( the other mom with 7)

Tracy & Jason,

I am so sorry for your loss.She was so beautiful. You have an amazing family. Thank you so much for sharing this with me.

Jennifer

My heart is full of both Joy & Sorrow. Joy that Darcy Anne is Home with JESUS. Sorrowful for the family left behind without their littlest Angel. But we do rejoice in the fact that we will all see her in Heaven! Jason & Tracy thank you for being strong enough to open your hearts and shore your expirience with all of us. May you all know the Peace and Comfort now, that can only come from our FATHER in Heaven.......
In Christ,
Shirley Moon

It is with sadness that we extend our deep sympathy during this difficult time. We are praying for you both, for the strength to continue and move on and allow time to heal the grief. Darcy has touched your life [as well as ours] in ways only you will always treasure and understand, and for this, there is much to be grateful for...That she came along to bring you hope. That she came along to bring you an infinite capacity to love. That she came along to bring you joy. What a gift from God! She came along for you to make memories, for you to derive warmth and comfort from these memories, and for you to someday find ways to pass it on, as God meant goodness to spread. Such a brief time together with a child who made you care deeply, love unconditionally and probably feel a whole range of emotions humanly possible. Thank you for sharing Darcy with us and may God bless you and your family always.

Matty, Tiny & family

Dear Darcy Anne,
I know your Mommy and Daddy have much to read, but I can't help myself. I guess I just want to express that I am surprised at how much I grieve for what your Mommy and Daddy are feeling. Your Mommy was with me a lot when she was a little girl, so maybe it is the mother coming out in me. I pulled out albums to see the pictures of your Mommy when she was a little girl, to see which of your brothers and sister favor her, and to just try to think of something that I could do to comfort them, but I guess really the only thing I can do is pray, because only our loving Father can heal the loss of our precious children. I have not lost one on this earth, but I have grieved for the loss of nearness and for all the hurts and struggles they have to experience, and I can only imagine what it would be like to have the complete absence of a dear child to never be able, as your mommy says, to hold you, and care for you. It is wonderful to know that you are being cared for by our Almighty Father, but we want to see, we want to touch, we want to feel, we want to hear, and we want to know, and we want to do all we can to make sure all is well with you. It is our instinct and your little place in mommy's heart will never be filled this side of eternity, but only healed and given peace over time by our gracious Father. As Mommy says, it causes us to grow closer to our Father, because what else can we do to ease the pain of our children's absence. I continue to pray for your mommy and daddy that God is holding them tightly in the comfort of His loving hands and giving them strength to carry on. I know he is . . . mothers just want to know. Dear Jesus/God fill that void til they can see and hug their little girl once more.

Love you,
Judy

Dary Ann, I held your tiny hand when your mother brought you to my daughter's house on your way home from the hospital. You are a beautiful baby, and one day I will meet you again in Heaven.
May God's angels play with you, and keep you until your mommy and daddy come to see you, and can hold you once again.
My heart breaks for your parents at their loss of you. Thank you, Darcy, for the time that you did spend with them. I thank God for the precious days He gave them to spend with you. We will meet again, little one. Heaven is looking better every day with some really special people who are waiting for our arrival there..
Linda Sedlak, Cece Amundson's mother.

Dearest Jason, Tracy, and kids,

Thank you for sharing Darcy Anne's journey with us. She will always be my reminder of the celebration of life. In this day and age where everything has to be quick, easy, and convenient, Darcy reminds me what true love, endurance, sacrifice, struggle for life all means.

I admire all of you for your courage, strength, humility, and unconditional love you have for each other.

I share your grief for Darcy Anne, my heartfelt condolences to you all.

Love, Sara

Tracy -
thank you so much for all your words. I hurt thinking of you and your family and what you guys have been thru. You are a wonderful person and you have a heart the size of TX and I know you will get thru this seeing your other children and how much they will need you even more now.. So sorry for your loss. -

Tracy & family,
I just wanted you to know that I will be thinking of you and praying for you and Darcy and will take a moment at 10 am to reflect on Darcy and say a prayer for her on thurs .

In Honor of little Darcy's life

God’s Lent Child

“I’ll lend you for a little while
a child of mine” God said –
For you to love the while she lives
and mourn for when she’s dead.
It may be six or seven years
or forty, two, or three
but will you, till I call her back,
take care of her for me?

She’ll bring her charms to gladden you
and, should her stay be brief,
you’ll have her nicest memories
as solace for her grief.
I cannot promise she will stay,
since all from earth return
but, there are lessons taught below,
I want this child to learn.

I’ve looked the whole world over,
in my search for teachers true,
and from the things that crowd life’s lane
I have chosen you.
Now will you give her all your love,
nor think the labor vain,
nor hate me when I come to take
this lent child back again?

I fancied that I heard them say,
“Dear Lord Thy Will Be Done”
for all the joys thy child will bring
the risk of grief will run.
We’ll shelter her with tenderness,
we’ll love her while we may,
and for the happiness we’ve known,
forever grateful stay.
But, should thy Angels call for her
much sooner than we planned,
we’ll brave the grief that comes
and try to understand.

~~~~~~~~

We at CS love you Darcy, Tracy, and family. We are here for you.

Sandie

Tracy,
May God continue to bless and strenghen you through this trying time. I have never seen such a beautiful story. My heart grieves for you and you family. Just know that Darcy has recieved her heavenly healing. She's your little angel that will always keep watch over you and your family. God Bless You
Barbara

Today is a day for remembering as well as rejoicing. Thank you, Lord, for your grace and the best-est home you have waiting for precious Darcy Anne. We all look forward to celebrating our family reunion with You and our loved ones who have left this earth before us.

Precious family, you are loved from all over the world!

Love,
Earl and Jill

Tracy & Jason,

Today was so beautiful. I wasnt sure if I was going to make it through the whole service but i did. Grant helped me alot. His little arms wrapped around me are the reminder that I must go on. He hates to see me cry.

Darcy looked so pretty! Thank God for His miracles. Everything was perfect. A tribute fit for a queen! Thank you for letting me and my family be a part of this with you. Trevan said at lunch "WHY do we have the coolest church in the whole world?" kind of half joking and I said "Cause God is kewl that way man!" LOL
Its so true. You are so loved.


S

I too am a stranger whom by accident found your site, oh how my heart aches for the lose you have under gone. May the lord keep you in his strength that you may remember Darcy each and everyday and be so thanksful for your short but precious time with her. YOur story is so amazing that you have the love of the lord and you can keep going. I will pray for your family each day that you will continue to be strong and uplifted.
May god continue to bless you and keep you strong.

Wendy McCall- Louisiana

Dear Tracy and Jason,

I watched Darcy's slideshow today, and wanted to tell you how beautiful I thought it was. I cannot express enough to you how much she has changed my life and I don't even know you personally.

What a beautiful little angel she is.
My heart breaks for your family, and how much I want for her to be here on earth with you. I have so much admiration of your family's strength, love and support that you have for one another.

Your faith in God is very inspiring and very uplifting.
Not a day goes by that I don't think of your special little girl, and I wanted you to know how much you are in my family's thoughts and prayers.

Heather

Dear Tracy, Jason & children,

I know yesterday was the most wonderful homecoming for your darling Darcy! Praise God that we have a Heaven and we will be able to see her again someday. The tribute to Darcy was beautiful and the video was so wonderful also. I wish I could have been with you'll---we were in Spirit and we have been praying for you'll everyday. We love you'll and are so thankful that you are Christians and know you will see Darcy again someday. The Lord knows when! We serve an awesome God! Tracy, I will call you soon.


All our love,


Loretta & Solomon

Dear Tracy,

Your anger is normal. The protective anger you feel against anyone who did not treasure or understand the great value of Darcy Anne's life...like the family member you mentioned is so normal...and so familiar to me. When my twins daughters were stillborn, I was so angry and hurt with the comments from family members who hadn't supported us during our pregnancy or after the loss. It amazed me that they could be so insensitive and hurtful. I wonder if part of our anger comes from the fact that we feel helpless that we couldn't protect our babies from what they faced on this Earth, and we want to proctect them from the people who hurt us and didn't love them the way they should. Anger is just a natural part of grief.

And...as for your relationship with your husband. What you both have endured did, is, and will put a great strain on your marriage. Cling to God's Word and His promises, and cling to each other. Pray for strength and unity. The loss of a child and the terrible grief often tears families apart. Protect yourselves from this. You need each other. Remember that men and women grieve differently and it's easy to misunderstand and get hurt by the way your spouse may choose to grieve. He may get silent and distant or even lash out in anger. You may do the same...or you may have different needs. Respect each other's need to grieve differently...and don't let anything come between you. Pray for the love and grace to forgive one another and do not let a "root of bitterness" spring up between you. And rest in the truth that God will carry you both through this. When you are too weak, too broken, too angry, to hold on, He will carry you...

Praying for your family,
Kelly Gerken
http://sufficientgrace-kelly.blogspot.com
sufficientgraceministries@gmail.com

My heart continues to ache for your family. Words can not begin to help diminish the pain you are going through. You will find strength from each other. I too lost a child but not in the same sense you did. I was only 3 months pregnant. They did know that the baby was a boy. At the time I already had a 2 year old son. He named the baby Nicholas. He is now 8 and still talks about his brother in heaven at times. While I was pregnant with Nick my husband and I were also having some difficulties within our marriage. When I lost the baby I was absolutly devastated. My husband became my rock putting his grief aside for me. I feel that Nicholas helped save our marriage. Rejoice in the joy of your husband and other children and LIVE. Live a life Darcy would want you to live. I can't imagine what your going through I know it will get easier with time. But embracing the love that you and everyone else had for her and spreading that wonderful news will help Darcy live forever within everyones heart. My heart and prayers go out to you. MAy God lay his hand upon you shoulder during this difficult time.

God Bless!

Tracy I would like to invite your whole family to http://haincomfortforum.org this forum is a bereavement forum. You will have ladies that have been through loss themselves to be there to listen. Its a place you can vent, cry, and more. please join us. We would be honored!

Tracy,
Anger is one of the steps of grief. I am going to look for the little booklet called "Good Grief" for you. It talks about the seven (I believe) steps of grief. Each person goes through each of the sevens steps, but the order, length, and intensivity of each step is uniquely different to each individual.
A dear friend gave me a copy when my dad passed away. It truely helpped as you learn to recognize each step as you come to it.
I know there is nothing I can say or do for you and Jason and the rest of your family to make anything easiier, but I can and do pray for you. May you each know the peace and comfort that can only come from our Heavenly Father!!!

Hello, Darcy.

I dread my nights. I couldn't sleep last night because I couldn't get my mind off memories of you and me. Your video keeps playing over and over again in my mind. It's 1 am and it looks like tonight seems to be headed there, too.

I'll keep trying. Gotta go to work tomorrow. Not sure how long I can keep this up.

I love and miss you.

Daddy

Dear Tracy and family ~

I just wanted to drop you and note to let you know that you've all been on my mind a little extra these past couple of days.

I continue to pray for your peace!

Love and hugs,
Kristie

Dear Darcy,
As always, we shine the light on the dark part of our heart and demand that we hold it up to the Light of the Lord. You continue to minister, exhort, teach and lead us, now from heaven, instead of earth. God is so glorified in your service, however short, on earth, because your parents gave EVERY MOMENT of your life to Him. You are blessed and we are blessed for knowing them...and knowing you. Can't wait to see you and the other saints and rejoice with you over your work that continues here on earth.

We were praying for you last night guys. Just wanted you to know.

See you in a few weeks!

"As one whom his mother comforts, So I will comfort you..." Isaiah 66:13

May the God of all comfort and mercy surround you and your precious family with His loving arms. May He bless you with peace. In the precious name of Jesus. Amen.

My heart aches and grieves for you both. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I think of Darcy frequently...

Hi, Darcy.

Just checking in. There hasn't been a day when you weren't on my mind. I like it that way.

I love you and look forward to being where you are. I am thankful that God gave you to us, even for just a short time.

Good night, my dear. Kisses.

Daddy

Dear Darcy.

I really miss you so! I get really sad and sometimes cry when I look at your pictures. I really want to hold you and kiss your little lips, I loved to do that when you were here.. I CANNOT wait to HOLD and KISS you AGAIN sister baby Darcy! I love you and miss you like I never missed anyone in my whole intire life! I LOVE YOU!

~Bella YOUR Sister!

Hi Darcy

Today is a beautiful day the sky is blue, great weather, kids playing in the background, birds chirping, wind blowing through my hair.. i CAN'T IMAGINE what it's like up there! I just want to let you know that when the day is beautiful I think of YOU! I love you Darcy!

~Bella

Dear Darcy Anne,

I just learned about you and your family from your website. I was especially touched by the photos, music, and your mother's diary. You are beautiful!

I am so sad that your family and friends don't get to see, touch, and take care of you anymore. They all seem like very special people who love you so much!

I believe you are enjoying being in Heaven with Jesus. I am looking forward to meeting you there someday.

Bev Cowen

Hi Darcy

The other day it was snowing at our house! I was so surprised! I was hoping it was going to snow this year! But when it snowed Wednsday afternoon, I wasn't happy .. I was sadder that day when it did. I went outside and looked up in the sky and felt all of these snowflakes falling on my face.. and it didn't make me any happier. I really wanted you to experience snow with me. And I felt the cold flakes on my skin, and I was really dissapointed cause it didn't come when you were here.. I really need you and i don't know what to do when Christmas comes. I wanted you to be here on Christmas so you could see all the lights with us, drink hot cocoa, open presents, sit around the Christmas Tree, and sing! I bet your doing all that in Heaven. I really miss you DarcyAnne.. I love you. Merry Christmas.

~your sister bella

Dear Darcy Anne Ramos,

Merry Christmas darling angel, I really was hoping for a great year and everything was great expecially when I heard that mommy was having a baby! But then when I heard that you had Trisomy 18 I was confused and hoping the doctors were wrong. Darcy I really wanted you here for Christmas , let me tell you, I was crying on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. The hospice nurse said that you could of lived for 5 more months so I was so exited that you would make it to Christmas... but you didn't. These sweet people brought over gifts on your behalf and I was really touched. I love you Baby Sister. I miss you dearly.

~Bella

Hi Darcy!

I hope you like my Christmas gift I gave you today. I got them from Target if your wondering. Guess what Darcy I love you no matter what and I wont STOP! I miss you sweet girl.

~Bella

Hello Ramos Family
I have been thinking about you all. And my prayers are with you as well especially this time of year
We love you all and think about you daily.

Dear Ramos family,
Wishing you much PEACE in this New Year.

Just wanted your mama and daddy to know that I was thinking about you and praying they are all doing well. You touched us all in such a profound way with your short time here on earth. God bless your mommy, daddy, and siblings...

Hello Darcy,
Your website mom made for you is beautiful. It even seems that your still right by my side when I read and write to you. I love you so much. When I heard that mom was writing a book about you, I was thrilled! But then I realized that your website had to be shut down. I was sad and I cried so much because I wont be able to write to you anymore. I love you Darcy, so much. I can't wait to see you soon little one.

Hi sweet Darcy,
I heard this song, and I thought it was perfect.

...
Sha-la-la-la-la
Sha-la-la-la-la

You used to call me your angel
Said I was sent straight down from Heaven
You'd hold me close in your arms
I loved the way you felt so strong
I never wanted you to leave
I wanted you to stay here holding me

I miss you, I miss your smile
And I still shed a tear every once and a while
And even though it's different now
You're still here somehow
My heart won't let you go, and I need you to know
I miss you, sha-la la la la, I miss you

You used to call me your dreamer
And now I'm livin' out my dream
Oh how I wish you could see
Everything that's happening for me
I'm thinking back on the past
It's true that time is flying by too fast

I miss you, I miss your smile
And I still she'd a tear every once and a while
And even though it's different now
You're still here somehow
My heart won't let you go, and I need you to know
I miss you, sha-la la la la, I miss you

I know you're in a better place,
But I wish that I could see your face
I know you are where you need to be
Even though it's not here with me

I miss you, I miss your smile
And I still she'd a tear every once and a while
And even though it's different now
You're still here somehow
My heart won't let you go, and I need you to know
I miss you, sha-la la la la

I miss you, I miss your smile
And I still she'd a tear every once and a while
And even though it's different now
You're still here somehow
My heart won't let you go, and I need you to know
I miss you, sha-la la la la, I miss you




I love you Sweet baby girl. I miss you so much.

Bella ♥'s Darcy Anne

This not the end, but the beginning for someone; someone to get closer to God, someone who has never known what he is capable of doing. Through this site many has come to know our creator is merciful and great and he endureth forever.

Thanks Ramos family for allowing us to come in and be a part of your family through out your journey; thanks for allowing us to also fall in love with Darcy Anne; but God loved her just as much.

Thanks to all who shared in the life of Darcy Anne while she was yet still here in the loving arms of her family, friends and spiritual family and now she’s resting in the bosom of our Heavenly Father.

May God bless all of you!

Amen

I am truly humbled by your divine experience. Your beautiful little Darcy is with our most Highest God. How lucky is she. You are great people and I knew that when I first met you both. I am so touched by this website about this precious little angel. God Bless you and your family. I know he already did. How lucky Darcy is.
Love Stacy O'Donnell

Tracey~
I came upon your website a bit by accident and am still overwhelmed by your story, your faith and mostly your sweet Darcy! I am a single mother of two, both healthy. For many reasons I have not made us part of a church family. I plan to find one soon-- Thanks Tracey & Darcy for inspiration.

Happy Birthday Darcy!

Im pretty sure God knows the rundown on Ramos family birthday traditions, so right now your probably enjoying a pink sprinkle doughnut and opening all of your presents :)

We miss you like crazy, pretty girl!

Love you!

Hey Darcy I wanted to say that I love you and I wanted to say Happy Birthday and I love you!


Happy Birthday

Love Alexys

Happy birthday, Darcy!

We are on our way to visit you. I hope you like what your sisters and brothers have planned for you!

I will be posting some pictures on your site soon.

I miss you and love you so very much!

See you in a few minutes!

Daddy

Happy birthday, Darcy! We love you!!!

Your big brothers,

Roman and Bryson

Happy Birthday, little Darcy Anne! I'm thinking about you today and praying for your precious family. What a priviledge to have "known" you through your Mommy's and Daddy's website! Now I look forward to meeting you in Heaven one day.

God bless,
Samantha

Dear Darcy Anne,
I am praying that God in his mercy and grace are holding your Mommy, Daddy, and brothers and sisters in his loving arms, knowing that you care more than they can even comprehend,and that they know it is OK whatever they are feeling. It is part of the human condition and thus you gave us your love to hold them together when they feel like they are falling apart.. Please be very near and dear to them right now, and in the days to come.

I love you so much Darcy

Hello little Darcy! I just wanted to write and let your sweet family know that I'm praying for the quick, easy, comfortable and safe delivery of your baby sister.

Congratulations on becoming a Big Sister, Darcy Anne! We love you!

The Bailey Family

Darcy: My Heather went to be with Jesus after a very complicated condition called "Triploidy" She was born February 3, 1989. She would have been 21 this next February 3, 2010. I know she is a big sister to you now. I also know that someday I will meet you both in paradise along with our Jesus. Thank you for giving my Heather yet another little angel to hang with. From my heart...... Cheryl, a mother who knows all too well the sorrow of giving a precious child to our Lord earlier than anticipated.

Darcy...We sent you a biggggg hug from Venezuela, you are a blessed girl, God loves you and cares about you. My Husband Jose, my daughter Sara and my son Gadiel say hi too....

Hi Darcy!

I just want to leave you a little note saying I love you! And Merry Christmas!

I LOVE YOU!

Hello Darcy

I want you to know that I love you and I thought about you today.

I am so blessed to have the privilege to be able to have a beautiful and awesome sister like you, Darcy.

I love you.

Darcy-

I just wanted your mommy to know that I am reading her book. I have been looking for a better relationship with God and it has been a hard road but things are finally coming together for me. Since reading your book, I am filled with faith and courage. To know that someone (your mom) can keep faith and have courage during such a hard time means that I certainly can too, not facing anything close to what your family went through. You have also helped me clear my opinions about the choice of life, and as a healthcare provider, that means my feelings may just matter to someone else's baby too. Thank you for the renewed spirit you have given me Ramos Family!

Hi there baby girl. You are very special and unique. God is using you to touch the lives of so many people. I hope you dance...